As men marched to war, women redefined what it meant to fight for freedom. From camp followers to civic leaders, military wives held the Revolution together—proving that liberty was forged not only on the battlefield, but in the resilience of those who stayed beside them.

Military spouses have been the silent engine behind every era of U.S. military history. This timeline reframes American military eras through their eyes—those who never wore the uniform but served nonetheless. From Revolutionary War camps to 21st-century deployments, this project highlights how spouses have adapted, organized, raised families, and advocated for change—often without recognition. This blog serves as a reminder that service is not just for the troop; it is also

For centuries, military spouses have stood as silent pillars behind service members, with their contributions often overlooked in the military.

Where sass meets source material. Welcome to my military library bookshelf—a curated collection of gritty memoirs, overlooked histories, and the stories traditional textbooks forgot. From bourbon-stained war journals to deep-dive academic works, this is where service, sacrifice, and sharp commentary collide. If you're looking for truth with bite, perspective with heart, and a few footnotes that hit like gut punches—you’re in the right place.

Mercy Otis Warren wasn’t just a military wife—she was a revolutionary with a pen as mighty as any musket. Her bold writings shaped public opinion, challenged leaders, and gave voice to women in a war for independence. As the first female historian of the American Revolution, her legacy reminds us that military spouses don’t just support history—they write it. #MercyOtisWarren #HomefrontArchives

Frustrated by how little had changed for military spouses across centuries, I turned to the archives. As a veteran, historian, and spouse, I began tracing the overlooked impact of military families. Spouses weren’t just “dependents”—they were advocates, strategists, and change-makers. This project isn’t a memoir; it’s a mission. It’s time military spouses moved from the margins into the center of military history.

After 25+ years of global moves, deployments, and duct-taped boxes labeled “Misc,” I finally unpacked—not just the stuff, but the stories. My military life has been shaped by resilience, laughter, and the quiet strength of those who serve and stand beside the uniform. From my time in the U.S. Air Force to life as a military spouse and now as a curator of military history, this is my space to explore the grit, grace, and unforgettable moments in military history that deserve t